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Thursday, March 4, 2021

Halaqa # 176

Rajab 20, 1442 AH                 40 days to Ramadan*



Always Remember Allah



Year 7


Attendance:  

7 Sisters


Location: Online via Google Meet

Agenda: (please note, we have included many links where you can read in detail more on each subject)


Note: During our Halaqa’s, Allah willing,  we encourage discussion after each section.  Sisters can share their reflections, thoughts and questions.

 

 

Opening Dua

O Allah, bless this Halaqa, allow us to gain, act upon and share beneficial knowledge. 

Guide us, forgive our sins and grant us Jannah with our families and loved ones. 

O my Lord increase me in knowledge*رَّبِّ زِدْنِى عِلْمًا   Ameen

*Part of ayah 114 Surah Taha(20)


Quran: Reciting

Sister Alia read Surah Fatihah aloud; then she recited from Surah Taa-Haa verses 126-135, followed by Sister Rim, reading the English Approximation by Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran.  In sha Allah, this will be an ongoing part of our Halaqa, and one day in sha Allah, we will have Khatam Quran and begin again.   



Quran: Tafsir

Surah Taa-Haa verses 126-135


We have chosen to use Tafsir Ibn Kathir   Volume 6 

Sister Alia read # 2 and 3.


  1. Severe Torment for Him Who transgresses beyond bounds

Verse 127

  1. Many Nations were destroyed and in Them is a Lesson

The Command to be patient and perform the Five daily Prayers

Verses 128-130

  1. Do not look at the Enjoyment of the Wealthy, be patient in the worship of Allah   (this section was missing a Hadith at the end, we’ve included it below in the discussion)

The Request of the Polytheists for Proofs while the Qur'an is itself a Proof

Verses 131-135


Discussion: 

Episode 5: Switching Shifts | Angels in Your Presence with Omar Suleiman 5:09


  • Such a simple yet powerful instruction from Allah, the Most Generous.


«يَقُولُ اللهُ تَعَالى: يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ تَفَرَّغْ لِعِبَادَتِي أَمْلَأْ صَدْرَكَ غِنىً وَأَسُدَّ فَقْرَكَ، وَإِنْ لَمْ تَفْعَلْ، مَلَأْتُ صَدْرَكَ شُغْلًا وَلَمْ أَسُدَّ فَقْرَك»

Allah, the Exalted, says, "O son of Adam, perform My worship and I will fill your chest with wealth and fulfill your needs. If you do not do so, then I will fill your chest with toil and I will not fulfill your needs.''



Quran: Tajweed   (postponed)

We are following a book from our library that is not copyrighted.

Tajweed for Beginners  Prepared by Qari Ismail Essack  

(today’s lesson PDf page 28) Booklet page 27

We now have a Tajweed Channel and Group on Telegram, where Sisters can catch up on missed lessons and participate in group discussions.  Email us if you would like to join. 


Note:

Sister Shimaa was unavailable for today’s lesson, therefore we postponed it.


A Temporary Gift

Sister Karima read: 

Voices of the Oppressed: The ground will be opened

Reflections on Love, Loss and Healing: Allah’s Plans

Page 174-177

Link to Purchase a pdf                Link to buy


Note:  

  • Sisters were emotional listening to “Allah’s Plans”.  

  • They reflected on the concept of time. 

  • We remembered our previous Halaqa “Blink of an Eye”  

  • Sister Bana discussed a podcast she had heard and shared it post-Halaqa.

Tafseer Surah 103 – Asr Part 1 by Nouman Ali Khan


Dua al Ghaib 


One of our members had a family medical emergency.  We prayed for her and her family.



بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم


أسال الله العظيم رب العرش العظيم أن يشفي 

المرضى 


I ask Allah, the Mighty, Lord of the mighty throne to cure the sick.


اللهم أذهب البأس رب الناس واشف انت الشافي لا شفاء إلا شفاؤك شفاءٌ لا يغادر سقما


Oh Allah, take away the hardship, Lord of the people, and remove this pain and cure it You are

the one who cures, and there is no one besides You that can cure, grant such a cure that no illness remains. 


Oh Allah Al Shafi, grant a cure for our sister’s loved one and give them patience during this time.

Make it an expiation of their sins and increase them in ranking Ameen.



Nurturing Eman in Children  

Sister Alia read the following: 

Part Three: Developing an Islamic Personality

Chapter 12       Additional Keys to Developing an Islamic Personality

Encourage a focus on worthy values and related projects 1 page 2 pages


Pdf Page 165-166

Discussion:

  • While we want to educate our children on the realities of the world around them, we have to be sensitive to their unique personalities and how they can internalize some situations in negative ways that affect their mental health. 

  • We have to not only show compassion and caring for the world at large but also in our micro-world with our sisters and community. 


Don’t Be Sad

Sister Bana read  Do not be sad  ~  Always remember Allah

 Pdf pg 106-107

E-book,   page 107-108

Discussion:  

  • We took the name of our Halaqa from this reading.

  • Sister Bana remarked on the Ayah quoted in regards to children diverting you from the remembrance of Allah. She said that we should try to remember Allah, when we are with our children, find moments to thank Allah and teach and help our children remember Allah as well. 

  • Sister Winnie remembered a hadith she read recently: 


  • The beginning of the reading had many quotes from the Quran using only the Surah number and not the name.

  • We discussed how we could try to memorize the Surah numbers. 

    • We all have memories that are associated with particular numbers. A very simple example is the months of the years, if we say 7, we know that is July. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could have the same association for the blessed Surahs of the Glorious Quran? 

    • Think of your age, your address, the year you graduated etc, etc. Look up the corresponding Surah. Print off a list of all the Surah’s then slowly list in the corresponding memory trigger.  

Learn A Dua

Al-Buhuti reported: Umar, (Radhiyallahu anhu), may Allah be pleased with him, said, 

“O Allah, show me the truth as truth and guide me to follow it. Show me the false as false and guide me to avoid it.”

Source: Sharḥ al-Muntahá al-Irādāt 3/497


Discussion:    

  • Sister Rim discussed the difficulty in knowing truth from falsehood and how this dua is a comfort to those seeking to gain knowledge and benefit from it. 

  • Sister Alia discussed how the early scholars in the past had differences of opinion and some were whipped or imprisoned. We need to have respectful disagreements.  Only Allah, Al Haqq knows the absolute truth. We make this dua to help us follow the correct path. 

  • Sister Winnie shared the following post Halaqa:

Source: And the Answer is . . . Al-Haqq! - Understand Al-Qur'an Academy


  • Sister Alia shared the following with the sisters.

Sahih Muslim 2454 - The Book of the Merits of the Companions - كتاب فضائل الصحابة رضى الله تعالى عنهم

 



Video Series: Angels in Your Presence

We watched the following video:

Episode 7: The Banner Above You | Angels in Your Presence with Omar Suleiman 3:27

Discussion:    

  • We discussed the idea of taking this concept and using it to help our children think of the start of their day. Make little flags with various intentions written on them. Then, when the child wakes, have them choose one of those flags.  If the child does something inappropriate throughout the day, take their flag away and have a talk with them.  Explain how Allah, Al Ghafur forgives and gives another chance for us to do good then have the child choose a new or the same intention. 

  • Another way to help children start their day is to surprise them with notes written on the bathroom mirror with whiteboard markers. 


News and Schedule


Third Thursday of the month   

Thursday, March 18th  

Halaqa Online via Google Meet  

First Thursday of the month

Thursday, April 1st   

🌟🌟🌟Start of Year 8 🌟🌟🌟

Halaqa Online via Google Meet  

 

Off the Record

A few minutes set aside before the Halaqa ends for sisters to share personal observations from their life. 



Closing Dua

For the expiation of sins, said at the conclusion of a sitting or gathering. To listen to this dua click here.


"How perfect You are O Allah, and I praise You.

 I bear witness that None has the right to be worshipped except You.

 I seek Your forgiveness and turn to You in repentance."

سُبْحـانَكَ اللّهُـمَّ وَبِحَمدِك، أَشْهَـدُ أَنْ لا إِلهَ إِلاّ أَنْتَ أَسْتَغْفِرُكَ وَأَتوبُ إِلَـيْك

Subhânaka l-lâhumma wa bi-hamdika. Ash-hadu an lâ ilâha illâ anta, astaghfiruka wa atûbu ilayka..



If any of this information was good and true, know that it comes from Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala.  

If there are mistakes, we ask for Allah’s Forgiveness and Mercy.    

Thursday, February 4, 2021

Halaqa # 174

Jumada Al-Thani 22, 1442 AH


Blink of an Eye



Year 7


Attendance:  6 Sisters


Location: Online via Google Meet


Agenda: (please note, we have included many links where you can read in detail more on each subject)

 

Note: During our Halaqa’s, Allah willing,  we encourage discussion after each section.  Sisters can share their reflections, thoughts and questions.

 

Opening Dua

O Allah, bless this Halaqa, allow us to gain, act upon and share beneficial knowledge. 

Guide us, forgive our sins and grant us Jannah with our families and loved ones. 

O my Lord increase me in knowledge*رَّبِّ زِدْنِى عِلْمًا   Ameen

*Part of ayah 114 Surah Taha(20)


Quran: Reciting

Sister Alia read Surah Fatihah aloud; then she recited from Surah Taa-Haa verse 99-113, followed by a sister reading the English Approximation by Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran.  In sha Allah, this will be an ongoing part of our Halaqa, and one day in sha Allah, we will have Khatam Quran and begin again.   



Quran: Tafsir

Surah Taa-Haa verse 99-113


We have chosen to use Tafsir Ibn Kathir   Volume 6 

Sister Alia read #2 and #3.

  1. The Entire Qur'an is the Remembrance of Allah and mentioning the Punishment of Those Who turn away from It

Verses 99-101

  1. Blowing of the Sur and the Day of Resurrection

Verses 102-104

  1. The destruction of the Mountains and the Earth becomes a Smooth Plain

Verses 105-108

  1. The Intercession and the Recompense

Verses 109-112



Discussion:       

  • The title of this Halaqa came from the discussion we had after listening to the tafsir. 

  • Surah Sajdah

 



Sisters Share:

Sister Shimaa prepared the following article to share with us :

https://amanahsistershalaqa.blogspot.com/2021/02/verses-that-have-they-ask-you.html


Quran: Tajweed

We are following a book from our library that is not copyrighted.

Tajweed for Beginners  Prepared by Qari Ismail Essack  

(today’s lesson PDf page 26-27)

We now have a Tajweed Channel and Group on Telegram, where Sisters can catch up on missed lessons and participate in group discussions.  Email us if you would like to join. 


She has found an excellent website to help augment our learning. 

Here is a link to today’s lesson:

THE CHARACTERISTICS OF THE LETTERS, PART 5, AL-ITBAAQ AND AL-INFITAAH


And here is a link to a video she wanted us to watch.

Al-Itbaaq & Al-Infitaah - Sifaat al Huroof Tajweed Lessons in English


Sister Shimaa reviewed the previous lesson and taught us 

Al-Itbaaq and Al-Infitaah

Tips:    

  • To test a letter add alef before it, then you’ll be able to find all the sifaat of that letter. 

  • The best recitation to listen to is Al Husary ~ teacher.  You’ll be able to hear each letter properly pronounced.  Here is a link to Al-Fatiha

Homework:  

  • Find a ayah that shows Mustaliya

  • Find an ayah that shows Mutbiqah


Great Women of Islam Who Were Given the Good News of Paradise

Sister Edit  started the chapter about

Umm Habiba Ramlah bint Abi Sufyan radi Allahu anha  

Starting at pdf page 118 to the stars on page 122

In the book, page 123-127 end of the page

Kindle edition


Nurturing Eman in Children  

Sister Alia read the following: 

Part Three: Developing an Islamic Personality

Chapter 12       Additional Keys to Developing an Islamic Personality

Teach children to understand all things from the perspective of Islam

Teach the importance of obedience to parents   

Pdf Page 161-163

Discussion:  We thought back to an article written by one of our members 

What does Islam say about bullying?

Prepared and Presented by Sister Rim:


Video Series: Angels in Your Presence

We watched the following video:

Episode 5: Switching Shifts | Angels in Your Presence with Omar Suleiman 5:09

Discussion:  Always a pleasure to watch and learn from this series of videos. Be aware of the “shift change” for the angels……. Fajr to sunrise     Asr to the start of Maghrib


Learn A Dua


News and Schedule


Third Thursday of the month   

Thursday, February 18th  

Halaqa Online via Google Meet  

First Thursday of the month

Thursday, March 4th

Halaqa Online via Google Meet  

 

Sisters Share:

Post-Halaqa Sister Nissa shared: 



Closing Dua

For the expiation of sins, said at the conclusion of a sitting or gathering. To listen to this dua click here.


"How perfect You are O Allah, and I praise You.

 I bear witness that None has the right to be worshipped except You.

 I seek Your forgiveness and turn to You in repentance."

سُبْحـانَكَ اللّهُـمَّ وَبِحَمدِك، أَشْهَـدُ أَنْ لا إِلهَ إِلاّ أَنْتَ أَسْتَغْفِرُكَ وَأَتوبُ إِلَـيْك

Subhânaka l-lâhumma wa bi-hamdika. Ash-hadu an lâ ilâha illâ anta, astaghfiruka wa atûbu ilayka..



If any of this information was good and true, know that it comes from Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala.  

If there are mistakes, we ask for Allah’s Forgiveness and Mercy.